- 1 piece of paper
- 1 fire proof bowl
- 1 lighter or box of matches or a candle flame.
Write down on the piece of paper all the qualities, be they physical or mental, spiritual, etc that you would like in a lover. (This spell is not to draw or trap some specific person. Please do indulge yourself but at the same time be realistic.)
When you have listed all the qualities that you would like your ideal lover to have, read what you have written, allow it to make you happy as if you already have this person in your life. Fold up the piece of paper and burn it, placing it in the burning bowl to burn safely as you watch it burn visualize gold, red and pink energy coming from the smoke and flames going up into the universe to find and draw this person to you (of their own free will). When it has all burned out; sit in a relaxed state and imagine this person being with you and you both being happy, as if it is happening now, do this for at least five or ten minutes. Take the burning bowl containing the ashes outside and sprinkle them, while doing this visualize red, pink and gold energy flowing from the ashes into the universe to further search and bring this person to you of their own free will.